By jaexsong Started November 13, By using this site, you agree to our We have placed cookies on your device to help make this website better. You can adjust your cookie settings , otherwise we'll assume you're okay to continue.. Prev 1 2 Next Page 1 of 2. Recommended Posts. Posted January 23, Even though you knew he's been liking you back the entire time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options Guest Apple.
Mint Posted January 23, Guest myluckyself Posted January 23, Guest minyungee Posted January 23, For some girls, I think its the lack of excitement. They like the "chase" of flirting with a guy, and trying to see if he likes her back. Or there could be something else that they find that makes them lose interest like: they meet a new guy they're interested in, they find out something about the guy that turns them off, etc.
I know it seems like the girl just leads the guy on, but thats just what happens sometimes. And I know guys sometimes suddenly lose interest in a girl too. Guest Shikabane Hime Posted January 23, Ohhhh this happens to me all the time actually One is really recent he's really cute, pretty boy, nice, quirky i liked him, he liked me then i lost interest there's lots of reason why i lost interest 1.
He's my ex's roommate He was one of my closest friend's first real crush Guest x stylejjang Posted January 23, Guest kiwistar Posted January 23, I definitely prefer the guy making the first move. Cause they "just like the chase"? Once the chase is over, it's done. Guest princesspoppy Posted January 23, I lose interest in a guy when I find him annoying. Guest Cin De Posted January 23, Guest Marochi Posted January 23, Guest to.
Guest tranceeee Posted January 23, You can explore why you developed these feelings, what it is you're drawn to, and what you should look for in your next partner.
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It can be hard to have someone you care about deeply not feel the same way, but it's not the end of the world. As difficult as it may seem, you can overcome these feelings and grow as an individual in the process. Give it some time, try the tips mentioned above, and you will eventually find the fulfilling, lasting relationship with a partner who truly loves and supports you. Take the first step. Search Topics. The information on this page is not intended to be a substitution for diagnosis, treatment, or informed professional advice.
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We use cookies to make wikiHow great. By using our site, you agree to our cookie policy. Cookie Settings. Learn why people trust wikiHow. Download Article Explore this Article methods. Related Articles. Article Summary. Method 1. Think of their faults. One way to stop liking someone is to change how you think about them. Everybody has faults. You might also want to stop liking the person because you don't have much in common with them or because they have bad traits like using drugs or lying a lot.
Get some space from the person. The old proverb "out of sight, out of mind" is true. Limit contact with them both offline and online. Reduce all forms of contact with your crush. Being consistently reminded of them will only make getting over them harder.
This removes their stories from your news feed without their knowledge. Doing so avoids the awkward, "Hey, why did you delete me? However, if you think you will still be tempted to view their profile, delete them altogether.
You can always re-friend them at a later time. Stop talking about them. In order to reduce your feelings for this person, you'll also need to stop talking about them as much as you once did. No more going on and on about how great they are. Enlist your best buds to hold you accountable. Get rid of reminders. It's harder to forget someone if you're surrounded by items that spark thoughts of your feelings for them.
Spend an afternoon going through your things and purging any items that relate to the person. Do you have an old note from them?
Did you use to drink Orange Crush together? Get rid of anything they gave you and put away anything that makes you think of them. If you can't permanently get rid of something like a piece of furniture or a school textbook , try to find ways to keep it out of your sight as much as possible. Wrap a book in a new cover or toss a throw over the couch you used to sit on together. Avoid romantic movies or songs. Hearing special songs or watching specific movies may make you long for your crush.
Avoid those songs and films that you know will make you think about the person. These may include those that are downright romantic or simply those that you enjoyed together.
Method 2. Make new friends or reconnect with old ones. If you were crushing on a new person, you may have started to neglect your social circle. Get back out there and start rekindling old friendships or making new ones.
Hanging with good friends can help you feel supported and take your mind off your crush. Join a new club or sports team.
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